Did some searching but couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer, so here goes. Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
OkCupid's free tier remains surprisingly usable compared to what most other platforms offer for nothing. Tell a trusted friend your plans and share your live location during any first meeting.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Photo verification features are the most useful safety tool any modern dating app can offer.
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
- Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be.