This came up in a group chat recently and I realized nobody had a good answer. Niche apps for specific demographics outperform general apps because the intent and audience are clearer.
Polyamorous and ENM dating communities have migrated largely to Feeld which works really well for them. Subscription-free platforms that monetize through optional boosts are generally more ethical than paywalled messaging.
Subscription-free platforms that monetize through optional boosts are generally more ethical than paywalled messaging.
Safety stuff I try to keep in mind:
- Check the privacy policy before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location data.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Most scams follow very predictable patterns — quick emotional escalation and requests for money or cards.