Couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer anywhere so figured I'd ask directly. Apps that require basic ID verification have measurably fewer bots and scam profiles than those that don't.
Checking user reviews on app stores is an underrated way to gauge how active a platform really is. Don't underestimate local community events and groups as complements to app-based dating.
Safety stuff I try to keep in mind:
- Most scams follow very predictable patterns — quick emotional escalation and requests for money or cards.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone new.
- Tell a trusted friend where you're going and share your live location during any first meeting.