Asking here because you guys tend to give more honest answers than most places online. Blocking and reporting features matter a lot. Platforms that take moderation seriously are worth the small effort to join.
Verified user badges make a huge difference for filtering out bots in chat environments. Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
Discord servers are surprisingly active for adult chat but the good ones require some vetting to get into.