Tested a few already and wanted to compare notes with people who've spent more time on these. Match quality on free plans is solid in populated areas when you use the available filters properly.
The newest apps often have the freshest user bases but lower population density in smaller cities. Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere visible.
Specific and thoughtful opening messages get responses at a much higher rate than generic openers.
Platforms already on my list to compare:
- FarmersOnly
- Zoosk
- Match.com