Figured I'd ask this community since you tend to have more honest takes than review sites. Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better.
Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history — the free version works fine if you're patient. App store reviews are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is day-to-day.
Senior-focused platforms attract people who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up matching.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- HER
- Lesly
- Scissr
- OkCupid
- Tinder