Been sitting on this question for a while — figured this community would have the best take. Paid apps often attract more serious users because the barrier filters out time-wasters.
Video call before you meet — fastest way to confirm someone is who they claim to be. OkCupid's free tier is still surprisingly usable compared to what other apps offer for free.
Apps I've been looking at:
- Tinder
- Bumble
- Hinge
- Feeld
- Pure App