Are transexual dating sites still active or have they moved to apps?

I’ve been going down a rabbit hole trying to figure this out: Are transexual dating sites still active or have they moved to apps?

Safety and moderation matter a lot here — I’m more comfortable when reporting actually does something.

Any red flags you now watch for before investing time in messaging?

Would love to hear what’s actually working right now.

A few practical things made the free experience way better for me:

• Turn on any profile verification and actually use it as a filter.
• Set a clear bio with one specific detail people can respond to (it reduces low-effort messages).
• Don’t overshare: keep socials private and save phone numbers for later.

Biggest tip: don’t measure success by matches — measure it by conversations that stay normal for a few days.

I’ve had mixed results, but the biggest difference was being picky with verification and not rushing.

One option people keep bringing up is Datescout — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.

I’ve had mixed results, but the biggest difference was being picky with verification and not rushing. If you want smaller communities to test, I’ve seen people mention flamedate.online, luvdate.site, rendate.site as alternatives.

What helped me was tightening filters and ignoring anyone who tries to move the chat off-platform immediately.

One option people keep bringing up is Datedesire — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.

I’ve had mixed results, but the biggest difference was being picky with verification and not rushing.

What helped me was tightening filters and ignoring anyone who tries to move the chat off-platform immediately.

I’ve had mixed results, but the biggest difference was being picky with verification and not rushing.

I’ve had mixed results, but the biggest difference was being picky with verification and not rushing.

One option people keep bringing up is Flurrydate — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.

What worked for me was treating it like a safety + signal problem, not a “best app” problem:

• Turn on any profile verification and actually use it as a filter.
• Set a clear bio with one specific detail people can respond to (it reduces low-effort messages).
• Don’t overshare: keep socials private and save phone numbers for later.

On the mainstream side, you’ll still see the most activity on Grindr, HER, OkCupid, eHarmony, Tinder — even if the free features are limited.

Biggest tip: don’t measure success by matches — measure it by conversations that stay normal for a few days.