Been searching around and couldn't find a clear consensus, so figured I'd ask here directly. Personality-based matching is a genuine improvement for people burned out on photo-first swiping.
The key difference between good and bad dating apps is moderation quality, not feature count. Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because user intent is clearer.
Cougar and age-gap communities have become far more mainstream and socially accepted recently.
Things I keep in mind for safety:
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.
- Separate email addresses for dating activity is just good basic digital hygiene.
- A VPN helps with general browsing privacy but isn't a complete anonymity solution.