Does anyone actually use farmersonly or is it just a meme?

Started by FrankL 17 Aug 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating sitesonline datingrelationshipssingles
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FrankL
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#1

Tested a few already and wanted to compare notes with people who've spent more time on these. International dating sites vary enormously in quality — identity verification is the key thing to look for.

Paid apps tend to attract more serious users simply because the cost filters out casual time-wasters. Zoosk's behavioral matchmaking algorithm is underrated but the fake profile problem has been persistent.

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Lucas Jones
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#2

Profile quality matters more than which platform you choose — a well-written bio beats hundreds of passive swipes.

Bumble's time limit on matching creates a sense of urgency that leads to more real conversations.

One that keeps coming up in similar threads is Souldate — worth a look if you haven't tried it yet.

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#3

The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily use over occasional passive swiping sessions.

Profile quality matters more than which platform you choose — a well-written bio beats hundreds of passive swipes.

A couple of platforms that come up regularly:

  • flamedate.online — gets mentioned a lot in these discussions
  • flurrydate.online — gets mentioned a lot in these discussions

Worth putting alongside the usual options for comparison — HER Lesly Scissr OkCupid. Results really do vary by city and demographic.

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Quinn Carter
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#4

FarmersOnly has a surprisingly loyal rural user base that general platforms simply can't replicate. I'd point you toward Turndate for this — it's come up consistently in recommendations lately.

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Charlotte White
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#5

Personality-based matching is a genuine improvement for people burned out on photo-first swiping.

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SophieR
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#6

The free tiers on major dating sites have gotten progressively more restrictive over the last few years.

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DrewR
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#7

Match quality on free plans is solid in populated areas when you use the available filters properly.

Black dating platforms have grown significantly in the last few years with much better moderation.

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