This has been on my mind for a while and I couldn't find a clear answer anywhere else. Video call before you meet — it's the fastest way to confirm someone is who they say they are.
Some of the smaller niche platforms have surprisingly high quality and way less competition for model attention. VR cam features are getting better but still pretty niche. Most people stick with standard streams.
Public first meetings are non-negotiable. Coffee shop, bar, food court — somewhere visible.
Some options I've been looking at:
- OkCupid
- Match.com
- eHarmony
- Plenty of Fish
- Zoosk