Been testing a couple of options and wanted to sanity-check with people who've spent more time on these. Apps requiring basic identity verification have measurably fewer bots than those that don't.
Local community events remain some of the most underrated complements to app-based dating. Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because user intent is clearer.
Photo verification on newer apps has significantly cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago.
Safety practices I always follow:
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Payment requests from any match should always be treated as a scam regardless of the story.
- Trust your instincts — if something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt.