Tested a few options already and wanted to cross-reference with real user experience. Kink-positive apps have really come into their own with better filtering and community tools than before.
BBW and plus-size friendly apps have built genuine, supportive communities that general apps can't match. Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
Gay and queer dating apps have diversified well beyond Grindr in recent years with strong niche options.