Did some searching but couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer, so here goes. Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
Cougar and age-gap dating communities have become far more mainstream and accepted than they used to be. Bumble's time limit on matching creates urgency that actually leads to more real conversations happening.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.
- Trust your instincts — if something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt.
- Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be.
- A VPN helps with general browsing privacy but is not a complete anonymity solution.