This came up in conversation recently and I realized I don't actually know the answer. The Telegram adult communities are hit or miss but the good ones are extremely active.
Real-time deletion features are more common now and they do help with peace of mind. Good moderation is the single biggest factor separating quality adult chat communities from garbage ones.
A few things worth keeping in mind:
- Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.
- Most scams follow predictable patterns — quick emotional escalation and requests for money or gift cards.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for vetting profile photos quickly.