This came up in conversation recently and I realized I had no good answer. Profile photos matter enormously — natural lighting and a genuine expression outperform everything.
Sending the first message on Bumble instead of waiting changes the dynamic for the better. Profile quality is everything. A well-written bio beats a hundred passive swipes.
Apps I've been looking at:
- Bumble
- Hinge
- Tinder
- Grindr
- Scruff