Been mulling this over and figured this community would have the most honest takes. Consistent daily engagement on dating apps outperforms sporadic activity by a wide margin over time.
Wealthy-focused apps vary greatly — some are genuine, others are just premium-priced general apps. Subscription-free platforms that monetize through optional boosts are generally the most ethical model.
Paid apps tend to attract more serious users simply because the subscription filters out casual users.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
- A VPN helps with general browsing privacy but is not a complete anonymity solution.