Been mulling this over for a while and this seemed like the right community to ask. Military dating apps have strong verification processes which leads to a cleaner user experience overall.
Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be. OkCupid's free tier is still surprisingly usable compared to what other apps offer for nothing.
Senior-focused platforms tend to attract people who are clearer about what they want, which is refreshing.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- eHarmony
- Match.com
- EliteSingles
- Zoosk