Been mulling this over for a while and this seemed like the right community to ask. Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be. Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before actually meeting someone in person.
Christian dating apps vary enormously in quality — some are very active, others feel like ghost towns.