Couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer anywhere so figured I'd ask directly. Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be.
OkCupid's free tier is still surprisingly usable compared to what other apps offer for nothing. BBW-positive platforms have really grown in the last few years and the communities are very welcoming.
Safety stuff I try to keep in mind:
- Check the privacy policy before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location data.
- Trust your gut completely. If something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt or explanation.
- Platforms with active moderation and real reporting tools are absolutely worth prioritizing over free-for-all sites.