Couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer anywhere so figured I'd ask directly. Most people underestimate how much the first message matters — specific and thoughtful beats generic every time.
The photo verification features on newer apps have really cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago. The newer personality-based matching apps are a breath of fresh air for people who hate photo-first swiping.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- eHarmony
- Match.com
- EliteSingles