This came up in a conversation recently and I realized I had no idea what the current answer was. Match quality on free plans is solid if you're in a populated area and actually use the filters available.
App store reviews are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is day-to-day. Accessibility features on disability-friendly apps are better than ever and frankly overdue.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Growlr
- Jack'd
- Recon