This came up in a conversation recently and I realized I had no idea what the current answer was. Smaller regional platforms often have better gender ratios than the global apps in smaller cities.
The key difference between good and bad dating apps is usually moderation quality, not feature count. Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
Military dating apps have strong verification processes that produce a noticeably cleaner user pool.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Growlr
- Jack'd
- Recon