Been mulling this over and figured this community would have the most honest takes. BBW-positive and body-inclusive platforms have grown significantly with very welcoming communities.
Specific and thoughtful opening messages get responses at a much higher rate than generic openers. Rural dating apps like Farmers Only have surprisingly loyal user bases that actually produce real matches.
Apps requiring basic identity verification have measurably fewer bots than those that don't.
Apps already on my radar:
- Hinge
- Coffee Meets Bagel
- Bumble
- OkCupid
- Match.com