Asking here because you guys tend to give more honest answers than most places online. Premium features on most sites are genuinely not worth it unless you're in a very active metro area.
The trick is being upfront in your bio. Nobody wants to waste time guessing what you're after. I've found more luck using general social platforms creatively than most dedicated hookup sites honestly.
A few things worth keeping in mind:
- Separate browser profiles and email addresses for dating activity are basic hygiene at this point.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable. Coffee shop, bar, food court — somewhere visible.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern. Keep personal identifying details off screen.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for vetting profile photos quickly.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.