This has been on my mind for a while and I couldn't find a clear answer anywhere else. Bots are everywhere, but they're usually pretty easy to spot if you ask a specific question early on.
Platforms that do phone verification are way cleaner than the ones that let anyone sign up with an email. Friday nights are prime time — most platforms see a surge in activity after 9 PM so timing really does matter.
The messaging style matters a lot more than people think. Generic openers get ignored every single time.
Some options I've been looking at:
- Tinder
- Bumble
- Hinge
- OkCupid