Tried searching but couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer, so here we are. Text-only rooms are underrated for people who value discretion above everything.
Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when getting to know someone new. Message encryption is the baseline I look for in any chat app. It's just common sense.
Basic precautions I follow:
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern. Keep identifying details off screen.
- Separate email addresses for dating activity is just good hygiene.
- Trust your gut completely. If something feels off before a meet, cancel without guilt.
- Most scams follow predictable patterns — quick emotional escalation and requests for money.