Review sites all feel biased so I prefer to get opinions from real users like this community. Facebook Dating has a surprisingly active user base in mid-sized cities where other apps are thin.
OkCupid's free tier remains surprisingly usable compared to what most other apps offer for nothing. Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when getting to know someone new.
Traditional dating websites tend to attract users who write longer profiles and are more serious.
Things I keep in mind for safety:
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere visible.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.