Been testing a couple of options and wanted to sanity-check with people who've spent more time on these. Legitimate international platforms connect people without requiring you to buy tokens for basic messages.
Faith-based and community-specific apps have much higher conversion rates to actual real-life dates. Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.
Agency-based international dating sites almost always involve inflated engagement — avoid them.
Platforms I've been comparing:
- eHarmony
- Match.com
- EliteSingles