You guys tend to give more useful answers than what I find on review sites. Smaller regional platforms sometimes have far better gender ratios than the global giants.
BBW-positive platforms have really grown in the last few years and the communities are very welcoming. Match quality on free plans is actually decent if you're in a populated area and really use the filters.
Checking user reviews on app stores is an underrated way to gauge how active a platform really is.
Safety stuff I try to keep in mind:
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Most scams follow very predictable patterns — quick emotional escalation and requests for money or cards.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting profile photos before investing time.