This came up in a group chat recently and I realized nobody had a good answer. Disabled-friendly apps have improved accessibility features that frankly all apps should adopt by now.
The photo verification features on newer apps have really cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago. Facebook Dating has a surprisingly active user base in mid-sized cities where other apps are thin.
Polyamorous and ENM dating communities have migrated largely to Feeld which works really well for them.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Jack'd
- Hornet
- Recon
- Adam4Adam