Not sure where else to ask this — appreciate any firsthand experience people can share. Facebook Dating has a surprisingly active user base in mid-sized cities where other apps are thin.
Senior-focused platforms attract people who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up matching. BBW-positive platforms have grown significantly and their communities are generally very welcoming.
Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Jack'd
- Hornet