Been mulling this over and figured this community would have the most honest takes. Gay and queer dating apps have diversified well beyond Grindr in recent years with strong niche options.
Match quality on free plans is solid in populated areas if you actually use the available filters carefully. Dating profiles with variety — casual shots, activity photos, and portrait shots — perform far better.
Cougar and age-gap dating communities have become far more mainstream and accepted than they used to be.
Apps already on my radar:
- Feeld
- Kasidie
- SwingLifestyle
- Adult Friend Finder
- Pure