This question came up recently and I realized I didn't have a solid answer — hoping you do. Plenty of Fish still has one of the largest active user bases despite the platform feeling dated.
Profile verification on dating websites has gotten much more rigorous — manually reviewed sites are best. Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo.
Profile quality matters more than which platform you choose — a well-written bio beats hundreds of passive swipes.
Things I keep in mind for safety:
- Platforms with active moderation and real reporting tools are worth prioritizing.
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Trust your instincts — if something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt.