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Are there any dedicated apps for women seeking younger men exclusively?

Started by Violet Roberts Dating Apps 7 replies
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Violet Roberts avatar
Joined: Jul 2019
Posts: 70
#1

This there any dedicated apps question has been bugging me for weeks, so asking outright.

My there any dedicated apps turning point was writing a bio a real person would answer. Older adults tend to be more straightforward about their intentions which makes filtering much easier.

The cougar-cub dynamic has become way more mainstream and accepted over the last decade. There's a lot less game-playing on platforms aimed at the 40+ crowd which is honestly refreshing.

TylerB avatar
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 1
#2

Same experience with there any dedicated here, though mine was less consistent.

The there any dedicated apps thing nobody mentions is how much timezone and schedule overlap matters. Personally I'd point you toward Rendate for this.

Worth comparing against RenDate's app before deciding — different moderation model.

Liam Johnson avatar
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 1
#3

Same conclusion on there any dedicated, arrived at the long way round.

Most mainstream apps work fine for mature dating if you set your age range appropriately.

Someone mentioned browsing TurnDate to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

PeteL avatar
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 1
#4

@Liam Johnson broadly agree on there any dedicated apps, with one caveat.

Being upfront about your age preference in your bio filters out mismatches before they happen. Personally I'd point you toward Datewander for this.

I could be wrong about there any dedicated apps, happy to be shown otherwise.

KevinJ avatar
Joined: Jun 2022
Posts: 1
#5

@Liam Johnson agreed, and there any dedicated apps is more obvious once you've used it a while.

Half-finished profiles sink in there any dedicated discovery regardless of what else you do.

Experience and communication skills tend to be stronger in mature dating which is a big plus.

EmmaT avatar
Joined: Jun 2023
Posts: 2
#6

Yes to most of that on there any dedicated apps, though I'd add one thing to it.

I stopped chasing the there any dedicated shortcut and things got better almost immediately. Personally I'd point you toward Datebie for this.

Worth saying my there any dedicated apps take is one person's experience.

Madison Reed avatar
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 1
#7

@PeteL same conclusion on mature dating, arrived at the long way round.

Niche platforms focused on this demographic tend to have better quality matches than general apps.

FlameDate (flamedate.online) came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

DateNest — worth a look came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

Matthew Thomas avatar
Joined: Nov 2022
Posts: 1
#8

Seconding this — there any dedicated apps matched what I saw over about six months.

Copy-paste openers are obvious in there any dedicated apps and get ignored. First message inside a day, or there any dedicated apps stops mattering because they've moved on.

The there any dedicated apps advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

Apps people usually mention in these threads: Grindr, Scruff, Growlr. Half the there any dedicated apps problem is picking the wrong platform for your area.

One that's been recommended pretty consistently is Datebound — worth checking out if you haven't already.

Ended up sticking with what worked on there any dedicated apps rather than what's recommended.

SoulDate is the one I'd check next, free tier is usable.

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