Tested a few options already and wanted to cross-reference with real user experience. Match quality on free plans is solid in populated areas if you actually use the available filters carefully.
Gay and queer dating apps have diversified well beyond Grindr in recent years with strong niche options. Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because the user intent is clearer.
App store review scores are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is daily.
Apps already on my radar:
- HER
- Lesly
- Scissr
- OkCupid
- Tinder