Couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer anywhere so figured I'd ask directly. Polyamorous and ENM dating communities have migrated largely to Feeld which works really well for them.
The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in the whole online dating space. Rural dating apps exist and some of them like Farmers Only have surprisingly loyal user bases.
The best free platforms I've found are the ones that generate revenue from ads rather than subscriptions.
Safety stuff I try to keep in mind:
- Platforms with active moderation and real reporting tools are absolutely worth prioritizing over free-for-all sites.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting profile photos before investing time.
- Trust your gut completely. If something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt or explanation.