Been mulling this over for a while and this seemed like the right community to ask. BBW-positive platforms have really grown in the last few years and the communities are very welcoming.
Speed dating has made a comeback in both online and in-person formats which is genuinely fun. Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history — the free version works fine with patience.
Video dating as a pre-meeting step has become a standard expectation on most serious relationship platforms.