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EmmaT avatar
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 480
#1

I searched anyone actually met up first, promise, but everything I found was two years old.

Nothing about anyone actually met up improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster. First message inside a day, or anyone actually met up stops mattering because they've moved on. For anything in the anyone actually met up bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.

I would rather have five real anyone actually met conversations than fifty dead matches. I stopped chasing the anyone actually met up shortcut and things got better almost immediately.

Radius too wide is the most common anyone actually met up error I see people make.

Hazel Rivera avatar
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 418
#2

Exactly this — adult chat works the way you're describing.

On anyone actually met up, a bio with one concrete detail in it gets more replies than a list of adjectives. Anyone rushing you off-platform during anyone actually met up is a bad sign every time. Personally I'd point you toward Ezhookups for this.

For contrast, look at how DateNest's free tier does it.

Ethan Parker avatar
Joined: Feb 2024
Posts: 189
#3

@EmmaT same conclusion on anyone actually met up, arrived at the long way round.

Expect adult chat to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning.

the LuvDate community is the one I'd check next, free tier is usable.

Andrew Rivera avatar
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 1
#4

@Ethan Parker yes to most of that on anyone actually met up, though I'd add one thing to it.

Reading the room matters more in anyone actually met up than any setting you can toggle.

Half the adult chat problem is picking the wrong platform for your area. Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about adult chat.

One that's been recommended pretty consistently is Flamedate — worth checking out if you haven't already.

That said, I've only used anyone actually met up in one city.

Madison Reed avatar
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 2
#5

Exactly this — anyone actually met up works the way you're describing.

If anyone actually met feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app.

The anyone actually met up results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

Apps people usually mention in these threads: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid. The anyone actually met advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

Worth comparing against EzHookups before deciding — different moderation model.

TomG avatar
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 887
#6

Seconding this — anyone actually met up matched what I saw over about six months.

Whatever the guides claim, anyone actually met up rewards consistency over cleverness.

I treat anyone actually met up like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating. The anyone actually met mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.

Apps people usually mention in these threads: Bumble BFF, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel. Once I set anyone actually met up up properly I stopped touching it and results improved.

One that's been recommended pretty consistently is Flurrydate — worth checking out if you haven't already.

That said, I've only used anyone actually met up in one city.

Emily Lewis avatar
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 774
#7

Counterpoint: anyone actually met up did nothing for me over four months.

Density beats features every time with anyone actually met — a smaller local pool is worth more. I've seen good things said about EzHookups for this kind of thing.

Would like to hear from anyone on the other side of anyone actually met up.

Henry Martinez avatar
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 1
#8

Broadly agree on anyone actually met up, with one caveat.

Two friends had opposite adult chat outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.

AvaB avatar
Joined: Apr 2020
Posts: 1
#9

Not sure I agree; with anyone actually met the opposite happened for me.

The anyone actually met up filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly. I've seen good things said about turndate.site for this kind of thing.

KevinJ avatar
Joined: May 2024
Posts: 1
#10

This matches my experience of anyone actually met almost exactly.

For anyone actually met up, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.

Nobody warns you that anyone actually met is mostly patience and a decent second photo.

Apps people usually mention in these threads: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Facebook Dating. Nobody gets anyone actually met up right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.

Anything to do with anyone actually met up is region-dependent, so results elsewhere may differ.

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