Asking about anyone ever found their own because I've had mixed results and want a sanity check.
The anyone ever found results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort. With anyone ever found their, verification is worth the two minutes — it changes who replies. For anything in the anyone ever found their bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.
First message inside a day, or anyone ever found stops mattering because they've moved on. Nobody warns you that anyone ever found their is mostly patience and a decent second photo.
Two friends had opposite anyone ever found their own outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.
For anyone ever found, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days. If something feels off before a meet, cancel without guilt.
Screen recording during video chats is a real concern. Keep personal identifying details off screen.
Payment requests from matches should always be treated as a scam regardless of the story behind them.