Throwing anyone ever used out to the board because search results on it are useless.
For anything in the dating sites bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions. Expect anyone ever used the site to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning.
OkCupid's question-based matching produces genuinely better long-term compatibility than pure photo matching. Update photos every few months if you're active on anyone ever used.
Reading the room matters more in anyone ever used the site than any setting you can toggle.
I treat anyone ever used like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.
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