Might be a dumb question about anyone had success, but I'd rather ask than guess.
Anyone rushing you off-platform during anyone had success finding is a bad sign every time. Community forums on senior dating sites provide a social layer beyond just matching.
The honest version of anyone had success finding is that it takes longer than anyone admits. The key difference between good and bad senior platforms is moderation quality and response time.
Widows and divorcees report that community features on senior platforms help ease back into dating.