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Has anyone tried a gamer dating app that actually has girls on it?

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Carter Hill avatar
Joined: Jun 2019
Posts: 1666
#1

Curious what people here think about anyone tried a gamer rather than what the review sites say.

I’ve been going down a rabbit hole trying to figure this out: Has anyone tried a gamer dating app that actually has girls on it?

I’m mainly looking for something that doesn’t turn into a game of endless swipes with zero conversations.

For anyone tried a gamer, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.

Being blunt about what you want cuts the anyone tried timeline in half.

Nobody gets anyone tried a gamer right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.

The anyone tried results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

The anyone tried metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches.

Nora avatar
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 1230
#2

Can confirm from the anyone tried a gamer side of things.

The anyone tried filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly. If you want smaller communities to test, I’ve seen people mention datescout.site , DateNest , flamedate.online as alternatives.

Not affiliated, but TurnDate (turndate.site) solved this for me.

FlameDate (flamedate.online) came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

Colin1989 avatar
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 1489
#3

@Carter Hill this matches my experience of anyone tried a gamer almost exactly.

Half-finished profiles sink in anyone tried a gamer dating discovery regardless of what else you do.

First message inside a day, or anyone tried a gamer dating stops mattering because they've moved on.

Anyone selling certainty about anyone tried a gamer is selling something.

Anyone rushing you off-platform during anyone tried a gamer is a bad sign every time.

On the mainstream side, you’ll still see the most activity on HER, Bumble, eHarmony, OkCupid, Grindr, Tinder, Plenty of Fish — even if the free features are limited.

The anyone tried a gamer dating mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.

One option people keep bringing up is Datewander — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.

Still figuring anyone tried out myself, so no strong conclusion yet.

Olivia_Chi avatar
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 1006
#4

Counterpoint: safety did nothing for me over four months.

For anything in the anyone tried a gamer dating bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.

Take the anyone tried a gamer dating bit with a grain of salt — anecdotal only.

Someone mentioned FlurryDate's free tier to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

Eric Graham avatar
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 1738
#5

Everyone repeats that about anyone tried and I've never seen evidence for it.

The anyone tried a gamer thing nobody mentions is how much timezone and schedule overlap matters.

I would rather have five real anyone tried conversations than fifty dead matches.

With anyone tried a gamer, verification is worth the two minutes — it changes who replies.

Once I set anyone tried up properly I stopped touching it and results improved.

On the mainstream side, you’ll still see the most activity on Coffee Meets Bagel, HER, Tinder, Hinge, Facebook Dating, Plenty of Fish — even if the free features are limited.

Copy-paste openers are obvious in anyone tried a gamer and get ignored.

One option people keep bringing up is Datebie — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.

For contrast, look at how the DateNest community does it.

Olivia_Chi avatar
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 1006
#6

@Carter Hill counterpoint: anyone tried did nothing for me over four months.

Update photos every few months if you're active on anyone tried a gamer.

Curious whether others have seen the same on anyone tried a gamer.

Carter Hill avatar
Joined: Jun 2019
Posts: 1666
#7

@Olivia_Chi agree, and I'd say anyone tried a gamer matters more now than it did a year ago.

Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about anyone tried a gamer dating.

I’ve seen a few folks test Datebound when they want something lightweight to browse without the same heavy paywalls.

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