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Has anyone used pernals since the craigslist ban?

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TomG avatar
TomG OP
Joined: Apr 2022
Posts: 147
#1

Asking about anyone used pernals since because I've had mixed results and want a sanity check.

Been testing a couple of options lately and wanted to hear what this community thinks. I stopped chasing the anyone used pernals shortcut and things got better almost immediately.

Daily active user counts matter far more than total registered users when evaluating an app's real activity. The newer apps focusing on shared values rather than photos are seeing strong retention rates.

I would rather have five real anyone used pernals since conversations than fifty dead matches.

Photo verification features are one of the most useful safety tools any modern dating app can offer.

Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep identifying personal details off screen.

Trust your gut completely — if something feels off before a meet, cancel without guilt or explanation.

Whatever the guides claim, anyone used pernals since rewards consistency over cleverness.

Tyler Hill avatar
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 2
#2

Broadly agree on anyone used pernals since, with one caveat.

Pure's ephemeral matching approach is unique and works well for people who want something casual without pressure. Personally I'd try Rendate for this — it's come up in multiple recommendations lately.

Take the dating apps bit with a grain of salt — anecdotal only.

Matthew Thomas avatar
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 2
#3

Exactly this — anyone used pernals since works the way you're describing.

The anyone used pernals since metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches.

RenDate's app is the one I'd check next, free tier is usable.

JerryM avatar
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 2
#4

@TomG that's been true for me with anyone used pernals since on both mobile and desktop.

The anyone used pernals since results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

Scruff's more detailed profile system attracts a slightly more relationship-minded gay user base than Grindr.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Bumble BFF Hinge Coffee Meets Bagel. Photos matter more than the anyone used pernals since settings people obsess over.

One that's been mentioned consistently in similar threads is Datescout — worth checking out if you haven't already.

Someone mentioned browsing SoulDate to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

FlameDate came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

UriahM avatar
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 871
#5

Agree, and I'd say anyone used pernals since matters more now than it did a year ago.

eHarmony's questionnaire is detailed enough to feel almost therapeutic and the match quality reflects that.

Nothing about anyone used pernals since improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.

I ended up on TurnDate — worth a look for exactly this reason.

Nathan Rivera avatar
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 238
#6

@Matthew Thomas well put; anyone used pernals since is the part most guides skip over.

Update photos every few months if you're active on anyone used pernals. Personally I'd try Datebie for this — it's come up in multiple recommendations lately.

DateScout — worth a look came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

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