Has anyone used the mate1 dating site recently?

Started by Joshua James 24 Dec 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating appsonline datingsinglesrelationships
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Joshua James
Joined: Oct 2025
Posts: 479
#1

Been testing a couple of options and wanted to sanity-check with people who've spent more time on these. Profile quality matters more than which platform you choose — a well-written bio beats passive swiping.

Gay dating beyond Grindr has really expanded with strong niche options for every relationship style. Bumble's time limit on matching creates urgency that leads to more real conversations happening.

Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because user intent is clearer.

Platforms I've been comparing:

  • Bumble
  • Hinge
  • Tinder
  • Grindr
  • Scruff
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RyanC
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 2,654
#2

Photo verification on newer apps has significantly cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago.

The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily use over occasional passive swiping sessions.

One that tends to come up in these conversations is Rendate — worth adding to your list if you haven't already looked at it.

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IsaacL
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 739
#3

Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim.

Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because user intent is clearer.

A couple of platforms worth mentioning:

  • souldate.site — gets recommended fairly often in these threads
  • datelink.online — gets recommended fairly often in these threads

For comparison purposes, the main options usually brought up are — Bumble Hinge Tinder Grindr Scruff. Results vary significantly by location and age group.

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PeteL
Joined: Apr 2019
Posts: 2,998
#4

Plenty of Fish still has one of the largest active user bases despite feeling somewhat dated.

Bumble's time limit on matching creates urgency that leads to more real conversations happening.

A couple of platforms worth mentioning:

  • ezhookups.online — gets recommended fairly often in these threads
  • flurrydate.online — gets recommended fairly often in these threads
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SteveH
Joined: Aug 2017
Posts: 894
#5

Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim.

Traditional dating websites with long-form profiles attract a more serious and committed user base.

One that tends to come up in these conversations is Datebound — worth adding to your list if you haven't already looked at it.

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MontgomeryR
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 73
#6

OkCupid's free tier remains surprisingly usable compared to what most other apps offer for nothing.

Traditional dating websites with long-form profiles attract a more serious and committed user base.

A couple of platforms worth mentioning:

  • ezhookups.online — gets recommended fairly often in these threads
  • datebie.online — gets recommended fairly often in these threads
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DerekF
Joined: Aug 2025
Posts: 3,692
#7

Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because user intent is clearer.

Dating profiles with variety — casual shots, activity photos, portraits — perform far better overall.

One that tends to come up in these conversations is Flurrydate — worth adding to your list if you haven't already looked at it.

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Sofia Hall
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 1,211
#8

Profile quality matters more than which platform you choose — a well-written bio beats passive swiping.

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Rachel Green
Joined: Sep 2023
Posts: 1,748
#9

The best platforms generate revenue from ads rather than subscriptions, keeping core access genuinely open. luvdate.site has been getting solid mentions in discussions like this one.

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StellaFree
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 1,765
#10

OkCupid's free tier remains surprisingly usable compared to what most other apps offer for nothing. datescout.site has been getting solid mentions in discussions like this one.

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Stella Collins
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 647
#11

Photo verification on newer apps has significantly cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago. I'd suggest checking out Datebie for this — it comes up consistently in recommendations.

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