Reposting this do you activate the free question since it got buried on the other board.
Nobody gets do you activate the free right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying. Most do you activate complaints I see trace back to an incomplete profile.
I stopped chasing the dating apps shortcut and things got better almost immediately. Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about do you activate.
Nothing about do you activate improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.
@LilyRose i think the do you activate claim is overstated, for reasons below.
Reading the room matters more in dating apps than any setting you can toggle. Personally I'd check out Flamedate for this — it's been consistently recommended.
@PeteL broadly agree on do you activate the free, with one caveat.
The do you activate results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort. luvdate.site has been mentioned a fair bit in similar discussions.
That's been true for me with do you activate on both mobile and desktop.
Expect do you activate to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning. Photos matter more than the do you activate the free settings people obsess over.
Reading is free. So is joining — KaixKitsune has no subscription and no card on signup.