This came up in a conversation recently and I realized I had no idea what the current answer was. Being upfront about your relationship goals from the very start saves months of wasted messaging.
Hinge's approach has made it far more relationship-focused than most competitors in the current market. Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history — the free version works fine if you're patient.
The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily use over passive occasional swiping sessions.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Jack'd
- Hornet