Review sites are all over the place on this — figured I'd get straight answers here. Personality-based matching apps are a genuine improvement for people burned out on photo-first swiping.
Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person. Over-50 users tend to ghosting less than younger demographics which makes the experience much more pleasant.
Paid apps tend to attract more serious users simply because the cost filters out casual time-wasters.