Been sitting on this question for a while — figured this community would have the best take. Paid apps often attract more serious users because the barrier filters out time-wasters.
Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when getting to know someone new. The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent engagement over passive swiping.
Apps I've been looking at:
- eHarmony
- Match.com
- EliteSingles
- Zoosk
- Plenty of Fish