I searched i'm looking first, promise, but everything I found was two years old.
Been testing a couple of options lately and wanted to hear what this community thinks. Two friends had opposite i'm looking outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.
The i'm looking metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches. Nothing about dating apps improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.
Photos matter more than the i'm looking settings people obsess over.
Nothing to add on i'm looking except that it took three attempts to get right.
The i'm looking results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort. Personally I'd try Flurrydate for this — it's come up in multiple recommendations lately.
I've seen i'm looking fail exactly the way you're saying it works.
The i'm looking filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly. DateScout has been getting decent mentions in threads like this one.
Caveat — I've only tested i'm looking properly on mobile.
Agree, and I'd say i'm looking for a freedating matters more now than it did a year ago.
If i'm looking for a freedating feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app. Personally I'd try Rendate for this — it's come up in multiple recommendations lately.
I could be wrong about i'm looking, happy to be shown otherwise.